@Justicar Isn't it a shame someone needs to ask? I think the problem is we're too interconnected. Back in the day, the biggest group you were a part of was probably a forum of some sort. Dedicated servers abounded with people who gave a shit running them. Now everything's centralized, fake, and gay.
@RegalBeagle but i am in the same boat as that guy. i try to look for some discord groups on occasion but whenever i try one, i leave in a couple of seconds. startup groups are just a version of linkedin full of dumb self promotion posts. programming groups are full of degenerates and genz/gena that know nothing of substance.
@RegalBeagle even some old tech forums are full of people that know nothing of use. are you looking for a new email client? sure, here are 10 pages of comments. are you trying to solve a coding issue? crickets. that is what i was saying that experienced gen-x and old milenials left the building. the fat lady is singing no more.
@Justicar Can't deny that. I deleted Facebook years ago. I got a good group of guys, but like you say, we're talking about moving off Discord and over to TeamSpeak or something we host locally. If we gotta worry about some fag getting their panties in a bunch over memes reporting the server, then we gotta screen new guys. It's a hell of our own making. No one wants to be a sysad and everyone wants everything centralized. And companies want to farm our data, so no more dedicated servers
@RegalBeagle Facebook caused this with its facebook groups that many people migrated to form their original communities. and look at it now, it's died down but nobody went back to their original communities so we've lost decades of content and connections.