Been thinking about this and realizing that too many men let their women run the finances in their life. Then wonder why Amazon packages are showing up on their doorstep every day and credit cards keep maxing out.

You as a man should absolutely be in charge of the finances in the relationship. Now, you can budget stuff out to the woman for her to be in charge of. If you tell her she has a set amount to spend each week on groceries and a set amount to spend on herself, then she can handle that side of finances. You should absolutely know your bills though, what money is being spent on what, and most importantly, have some set aside for yourself the woman doesn't know about.

And of course, don't abuse your power. If you know you need X amount for groceries and to get the kids what they need each week, don't spend that part of your budget on yourself. Hold your woman accountable for her spending too, don't let her go over budget and you'll be alright

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