@Shadowman311 Mark Driscoll is a goddess-worshiping feminist. That's it.
He utilized a tough-guy routine in order to do two things:
-First, this beat down the men in his church psychologically so they felt as though he was an authority figure. 
-Second, it made him attractive to the women in his church, so they saw him as the authority figure. 
His demeanor was nothing more than a manipulative means by which he could impose the heresy of Christian buddhism on men (be a broken slave, personal desires are evil, etc.). His message is that men are responsible for all sins whatsoever, and if a woman sins it is the man's fault.  If a man is angry at him it is because of father wounds or something (plus him being effeminate); if a woman is angry at him, it is because a different man harmed her. Driscoll is the manliest-appearing advocate for anarcho-tyranny between the sexes you'll ever see, because that's how he got people to listen.