Where did this notion that men going out to work must mean he's sitting in a recliner somewhere just scratching his balls comes from?

Or at least that's the impression I get from bitter women TikTok and socials, who chose the traditional marriage but then constantly nag and complain about their man online, and the fact they're expected to pull THEIR weight in the marriage.

You know what he's doing? He's earning a pay-check to pay to keep a roof over your head and food in your increasingly fat stomach, and the frivolous expensive shit you keep ruining his weekend for. Now woman up and clean the house.