Real strength comes from within and standing up for what you believe in and living to your values plus believing in yourself. Once one is in a position of strength you can help others by receiving something in return. Try to avoid parasitism at all costs. Otherwise we travel down the same road which I would like to avoid. Insanity is only so entertaining. Relationship dynamics are built by the family unit, the way you run your household is how your society is going to run. By strong leadership.