@TenaciousGoat When you think about it, we set up our own standards and buy into them. We are our own judges of this.
It is sad when people let their own envy and shame rule them and how they perceive beauty standards. Shame is only useful if it motivates you to start moving, to achieve your goal. Otherwise you are better off dropping it because it is a terrible motivator for you. I think more people need to hear that. To find what motivates them to reach their own beauty goals for themselves rather than staying in a pool of misery they have created for themselves. I personally like seeing attractive people, they are eye candy for the soul.