Almost everything women say they want is a false pretense to hide that they are shallow.
when a woman says she wants an "emotionally available" man, she wants a guy who will sit and listen to her complain about her life. She wants an emotional dumping ground of a man.
under no circumstance does she want to hear about YOUR problems. She wants to bitch to you, not the other way around.
Women are turned off when men displays vulnerability. They do not actually like emotional guys. Shocker.