@YoMomz We definitely want to avoid blood feuds and rampant petty crime.

I've found the family centered discipline interesting. A community being a group of families (households) each with a clear leader. Each family being responsible for its members and by extension, the punishment of it's members.

It then becomes the family's responsibility to punish it's members to the satisfaction of the community in fear of all it's family members being ostracized. The whole, give your family a bad name.