To each his own, everything I do in life is bc I want to have a family, I want to have kids, we are all wired differently and having kids is what I want, you can call it a male human instinct, I am sure that if I was a woman, I would be the motherly kind of woman who wants to have kids. If I could have had kids sooner and be able to afford them I would have done so. I understand that this is not the case for most ppl but if I did not want a family I would have no drive in life.