Sparta is what woman talk about when they say Matriarchy, they glorified Sparta but, it was a state were man had ZERO rights, if you didin't met the Chad standard, they killes you, a mother tell her son " either win or die.
Man were foexed to marry or faced ridicule and taxation. Woman held all the power, but society painta Sparta as amazing as they paint Vlad Tepes, a christian hero as a monster.
Death was better then living in Sparta as a man.