Just thinking: As a man, no matter how deep the bond, how wild the sex, or how loyal you have been; the final decision is NEVER yours.
You can give her the world. Carry her pain. Even bleed for her.
But, if her feelings shift, she will walk, like none of it meant anything.
**The POWER of consent, of commitment, of continuing - it ALL lies in her hands.**
NOT yours. NEVER yours.
You do NOT decide if she stays.
You ONLY get to watch her decide.
@sardonicsmile Yep, which is why building yourself mentally, physically, emotionally, is all you can do.
Well commitment I disagree with in fact the most powerful thing you can do is walk away when you feel disrespected and replace her with a better connection. Show her she’s not as special as she thinks she is, that’s the most powerful thing you can do.
@Zeb @TenaciousWolf Females need not worry about abandonment. They have the Courts and police to enforce their maintenance and society as well.
@sardonicsmile That’s true, but women aren’t strong logical thinkers. If you walk away and you tell her and she see’s you moved on to what she believes is a better woman. She’ll feel the “I have to compete for this guy,” then change her behavior to try to get you to provide for her again.
Women don’t automatically think I have courts and police on my side I don’t need a man’s provision. They think who has been providing for me recently, are they worth having around? What can I do to have them?
@sardonicsmile Pussy then becomes a bargaining chip to have to keep provision coming. Women also subconsciously look for potential mates this way, and when she eventually does feel horny… my guess is once a month, sex becomes a way to feel closer and safer to her mate.
@TenaciousWolf @sardonicsmile
Commitment, investiment and any words women say have no value, since their greatest biological terminal objective is to get pregnant. Which realistically requires a few seconds of a man cumming into her pussy. That's it.
Now, to get a commitment, protection and investment from a man, a woman must keep her side of the bargain and work her entire life for him not to leave her: which is her biggest fear in life, abandonment.