@PapaPole love is a means to an end. It facilitates survival and reproduction, but when you consider the different roles men and women play in reproduction, it wouldn't make sense for "love" to work the same for both.

You don't necessarily want to "fix" women, as it could have disasters evolutionary consequences.

Women were actually fine for millennia, so perhaps the answer is more obvious and achievable than first imagined. Perhaps the problem is our assumptions about gender equality itself.