We spread the shit advice of stoic but, who invented it? A CUCKED ROMAN EMPEROR, WHO REFUSED TO LEAVE THE WEAK LINK THAT WAS HIS WIFE! we cannot compare to an emperor, and more to one who refused to enjoy his life while, fulfilling his duty.
meanwhile a regular joe who managed to become emperor, if maybe he was not an average joe but, he was not bred to be emperor, in his death bed said “O dear, I think I'm becoming a god!” – Vespasian