@rohrkrepierer - just a thought, but maybe it's because even if they don't realize it, incels are capable of finding some happiness on their own.
Females can't stand that, because they can't find happiness on their own. They'll often choose solitude, but it's not a happy one. This is why females celebrate male suicide. They're envious.
Females would probably hate chads too... if they weren't biologically driven to want to fuck them. 💁🏻♂️
Of course, I could be wrong. 😅🍻