I theorize that women believe that the power of social conditioning can alter reality is due to the fact that for them, it is mostly true.
"Women need to be made engineers so that young girls will be inspired to become engineers!"
You may get a few more women "engineers" with social conditioning and government quotas, but that is only an illusion if women are not fit to be engineers. But for the feminist advocates, the title itself means that the woman is an engineer by title alone.
So sure, the woman with a job title can be referred to as such. But if she cannot do the job, then is she really an engineer? Obviously not.
So when we apply this same mindset to other areas, many women will think that they can socially assert other things to become reality.
But if you do not realize that social assertions can only create illusions, you can believe idiotic things like women being just as strong as men, but men are socially conditioned to do sports more than women.
