I know it’s easy to dunk on career, libshit, koolaid women like this but it just makes me sad. They’re just following the script society gave them, they mean well enough, under a better system they’d be excellent citizens.
Instead their course has been turned from its righteous path, their instincts perverted. I know I’m a softy, but fertility woes are always sad. It’s just a bummer how nobody ever brings this up to the kids in school when they talk about health class. Instead we’re indoctrinating zoomers with the idea that you can TOTALLY pop out baby number one at 37 because {anecdote edge case} was able to
@WashedOutGundamPilot That "edge case" is usually woman who already had several children before, and was due to the fact that having previous child pushed her fertility window back further.
This woman is just another case of spending her 20s not putting focus on finding a husband. Even if she was not doing the whole hookup culture and "casual dating" during those years, the question still remains, what was she doing all that time?
@WashedOutGundamPilot Also, my guess would be she is looking for men near her own age. This will mean that she has limited options as most men her age are off the market, seeking younger women, or just not caring about marriage at all.
Speaking as someone from the first group, I will say that I knew that I wanted to be married and made sure to prioritize that as soon as possible. I would be insulted by a woman who waited until her 30s to do the same, as I would ask what was she waiting for?
@WashedOutGundamPilot To elaborate on the "insult," it is that I would feel taken for granted by a woman who spent her fertility window avoiding men like me in order to do whatever the hell she thought was more important than seeking a husband and starting a family. So many women claim that they want that for their future, so what is the reason to wait?
Often, the answer is so that she can "have her fun." Which implies that she thinks quite little of her (hypothetical) future husband.
