@deprecated_ii So your theory is a case of those women having misunderstanding the cause-and-effect chain? You may be on to something, as we see that with all the "body positivity" and "big is beautiful" propaganda by fat women.
It makes sense that women would come to this conclusion, because this is how they think. They are far more likely to go along with social pressures, thus they think men will if they attempt the same thing on them.