@matty @lebronjames75 Yes, it is usually this. A woman's career is usually just a neutral aspect of her in the dating market (unless she is a prostitute or something like that). Though often, the very traits and factors that made them want to pursue a career such as a surgeon make them unsuitable for long term relationships for most men. Especially if she "focused on her career" as an excuse not to look for a marriageable man when she had a chance (all while still hooking up on the side).