@Zoomerman88 The problem with her saying "I would not hook up or fwb with you" is that it means there is zero doubt that she was sleeping around years back. Yes, many women do that, but having full confirmation that she did makes her a bad prospect for marriage. Even worse when she states that YOU get to be the guy that has to invest more than other guys who got it for no real cost. Which is her saying she does not find you attractive, even if she does not outright admit it.