Women will readily fuck men they are actually sexually attracted to but NEVER consider committing to them.
"Getting the girl" means she does not actually like you (sexually; because women do NOT see men as human beings with feelings) thus the litany of excuses about "not wanting to rush things", because she is "looking for something serious".
Men are unaware and think if girls chose them, then they must be better Men. This is patently False, wishful thinking, delusion, and placing their self-worth on how the female sex's assement.
They cannot accept Truth, so schizophrenic stories about women "not knowing what they want" and other non intuitive takes are posited so women are NOT Revealed for the EVIL people they Truly are.
@Bianca How many boosters did you take?
@Owl I've spoken to your mom. Definitely vaccinated.
@GoyGirl I know what I'm talking about. Enjoy your cats and boxed wine.
@d0c40r0 go back to 4 Chan, N-word culture worshipping faggot.
If a woman choses you it is because she respects you less and knows you will not fight back against her dehumanizing, manipulation, and using you. Women know at the outset which Man in the room is the boyfriend/husband/attack dog/slave material.