Listen up.
THIS is what they think of you.   Especially bottom 80% of men.
https://x.com/Rich_Cooper/status/1981324278663365117?t=68xr5cJxxbNZPH43Ur-v_w&s=09
@TenaciousGoat Agreed.  Nevertheless, Zeb is making a deflection.  Reframing the argument as; "...well, men do it too, so..."
It is a typical feminist tactic.
But yes, for bottom 80% of men and especially as we get older, relationships are *purely* transactional.  
I am not in denial about that fact.