Even if you found a woman who was perfect wife material

If you had children with her and the government found out you were not raising them with the government approved values or in the government approved way

The government will falsely accuse you of S** crimes and then take your children away

They will claim you are part of some cult or extremist group committing S** crimes

Send in tanks and loud music & light your house on fire on the news killing your children to save them from S** abuse