How could society give women some degree of choice over their partners without reproducing more sociopaths by doing so?

Also would the kind of person who wants to choose women's partners for them be a sociopath

But would the kind of person who wants to allow women to choose sociopaths be a sociopath or something even worse than a sociopath

I mean the bad kind of sociopath

Someone like a surgeon could feel no emotional pain when other people suffer harm without taking actions to harm people