Choosing to join or not leave the religion of Orthodox Judaism while knowing what Orthodox Judausm teaches is child abuse
Orthodox Jewish writing found in Chabad website in Sanhedrin 54b says, "if a child who is less than nine years old engages in homosexual intercourse passively, the one who engages in intercourse with him is not liable"
https://www.chabad.org/torah-texts/5458257/The-Talmud/Sanhedrin/Chapter-7/54b
Orthodox Jews have been caught doing that in special ceremonial bath houses but reform and conservatuve Jewish synagogues sometimes also have those bath houses I think