"I have asked several women (Evangelical) this very question. They told me that they found the guys on ChristianMingle to be incredible judgmental. Guys were asking them about their religious practices, beliefs, knowledge of the Bible and then they said it got MUCH worse when it came to social and sexual attitudes and behaviors. They'd rather find a guy from a more mainstream site."

https://www.reddit.com/r/OkCupid/comments/8g56gu/why_do_people_with_strict_requirements_prefer/

How dare you come on a Christian platform & try to have a standard of / for sex ethics