@MantisMD

You can forgive someone and avoid them at the same time

If you did not forgive them you would try to make bad things happen to them

You just avoid them so they can not do bad things to you again

Also you can forgive them by not draining your mental resources thinking about them too much

I am not going to answer the poll because if I say yes then people will use that to excuse to continue to ignore wrong doing but if I say no then people will use that as an excuse not to forgive