Was there an episode of the TV show the golden girls where one of the adult women calls another adult woman a kissing slut because although she only had s*x with her husband or maybe what she considered to be a small number of men she kissed hundreds of guys or something similar to that

Also was the short woman in the TV show golden girls officially played by a short man?

Or did a man officially play a woman ( possibly the Church lady ) in saturday night live or some other TV series