They hate you but they want to make it illegal for you to hate them

By suppressing the feeling of hate in you they can continue to exploit you to get free stuff for them at your expense

Sure it takes resources on their part to suppress your hate but they get those resources from your expense because the resources they expend to suppress your hate they stole from you

This is a possible explanation why people who justify taxes in order to pay for welfare say

Hate has no place here