Here's my advice to single American men who feel hopeless about ever finding a good woman to marry:
Take an hour or two between goon sessions and browse across the Fediverse. Stop at every female avatar and every flower in the bio, and reply to every thread during late night hours. Avoid hot tub threads; replyguy primarily profiles without a lot of engagement.
Every time you see someone who is a grill online btw or a replygirl with a good vibe, politely ask her out. Tell her you're on your simp arc, you're a marriagepilled volcel. Repeat until you've found someone to be mutuals with.