I have a curiosity for everyone:
I observed that when I would meet people in a familial social setting, e.g. church, social clubs, etc.
Grandmothers and mothers would always want to introduce me to their granddaughters/daughters because said older women adored me and openly told me so. (I was a handsome, had a good job, solid work ethic, nice clothing, commitment to the cause, etc.)
Their granddaughters/daughters had no interest in me when I would speak to them in the same manner in which...
... I spoke to the rest of their family in said social setting, and further conversation never seemed to continue beyond the introduction even if it was private.
My assessment follows:
1) The behavior that made the older women recognize me as a catch was in-congruent with what the younger women found attractive.
2) The situation in which they would consider it appropriate to meet a boyfriend was not and could not be the same social situation as the one in which they would find their family.
