I think they’re leaving out the aspect of the dominance instinct, the dominance instinct is separate from the sex drive instinct. Men compete to obtain resources and dominate over other males, mates are one of those resources but not the primary motivator.
@UncleIroh yeah I think Clarey seems to miss the point, I hear a lot of people on YouTube say this talking point and it’s just wrong.
@I_AmTheKnight
That was pretty spot on.