@Mommy I've always wondered why some males like females who work on cars or do other manly things. The idealized female body is not built for such. If such a tomboy could be had, she's not going to be working on that car when kids come around. She'll be too busy with them; so, what is the point?
I can guess: the dream is basically a guy who has the body of a female and is just for sex. I see that as short-sighted.

No criticism on you, @Mommy, just asking the fedi. I love your posts.