@Mongoliaboo We tolerate each other. We both know that he's not my type of person and I'm not his type.

Thank you for the words of wisdom. I can tell it's coming from a place of "stay frosty."

The guys and I definitely talk outside of church when we hang out. Some are from other churches.

The pastor is a new pastor who just started a year ago. Hired mostly by the people who are definitely kind, loving, joyful, giving people, but also a bit ignorant and not really the people I hang out with.