@RoninGreyThat could be either a serious attempt with a dash of ignorance or a well thought out attention call.
The first could be worked through, but the second points towards a methodical manipulator.
Type 1 will be utterly devoted to her beloved rock, so if he can be a rock for her she's a keeper.
There's no fixing the methodical manipulator type. Avoid the type 2.
Hope it helps