Rome's 3rd Century Crisis revealed that the Romans, especially the Roman elites, did not actually believe in the old pagan gods.
Instead, the Roman elites were 2 groups. One believed only in the sword, and routinely betrayed each other. The 2nd group of Roman elites believed in Christ, and had far better superior cooperation and group altruism.
Guess which group your typical fedi McChristian most resembles?
Approximately 40,000 men in America commit suicide each year.
That means that America has plenty of men who are capable of self-sacrifice, they're just hitting the wrong targets.
Men, do not ever commit suicide, always get even with the vermin who screwed you over instead.