>Because you can be dating one only to find out she's "talking to" (so, possibly fucking at least one of) any of a dozen other guys so the desire to put in *any* effort to a woman like this falls to zero. It is insanity to make yourself emotionally vulnerable to a person like this.
Now women, when they hear about this, would say some bullshit like "oh well that's why you say at the start of the talking stage to be exclusive", as if that kind of awkward, weird fucking conversation topic would even go over well at all. Seriously, imagine saying something that stupid on a first date.
It used to just be assumed but now I don't want to play "ultimate gf manager 2000" and live my own life at the same time. Not only that but you know there was some guy that put in zero effort and got pussy nothing, further disincentivizing any effort. No guy wants to feel like the sucker that has to wine and dine the town bike.
This leads to having to behave like a psychopathic narcissist if you want to get laid and unless you actually are one, it's a fucking chore and when you've had sex a few times it's actually just depressing because you feel like you are using the woman to masturbate with. There's no deeper connection and you realize when you start to think you might feel one, "oh yeah, she's talking to other guys, so this isn't special, and why the fuck should I go to so much effort for this?"
Don't even get started on the "dating app statistics" which just overwhelmingly, mathematically proved how absolutely insane modern women's standards have become. I am not going to live my live as a slave to maybe getting pussy.
BASED!