@Terry @anglo @PinochetsCommieCopter @randbot @Some_German_Guy I'm sorry that I offended you by pointing out that a toy which simulates anal sex can be appealing to both straight and gay men. I hope we can still be friends and our names are next to eachother on the FBI's watchlist.
@Terry @anglo @PinochetsCommieCopter @randbot @Some_German_Guy I am willing to be friends with anyone as long as we get along. Halsey disagrees with all the sex doll stuff I do too (he has a wife and 5 kids), but we agree on a lot and get along, and it doesn't get in the way.
I followed you because I like your posts. I've been kicked off of everywhere for hate speech too. I'm not here to pick a fight.
You seem reasonable enough to have some words with. We are on fedi afterall so let's mingle and mix. Let's parley ideas and try to find the bigger picture.
Personally, I do not believe masturbation is an outright evil coming from what my medical understanding is about it. You could have an excess of testosterone that causes spontaneous stimulation. Happens quite often for pubescent teens. Release is necessary.
However, the danger is frequency and developing a dependency on the dopamine ride that follows this release. The danger in particular is overtime, frequent masturbation will actually be detrimental to a male's overall development when it comes to courting women. You end up becoming yet another "nice guy" that no self-respecting woman wants to date. Psychologically you will suffer from this dependency because while you're getting the dopamine, you're not getting the serotonin from legitimate human interaction for your sex drive. This leads to depression and frustration.
Observe what is happening around you.
Tell me coomer, do you consider yourself a spiritual man?
@pyrate @Terry @anglo @PinochetsCommieCopter @randbot @Some_German_Guy This is a deep topic, but to your point about porn addiction, one of my co-hosts did have a crippling porn addiction, and by talking about it openly on the show and being compassionate towards him, he ended up getting a handle on it and is turning his life around.
Regarding dopamine, pleasure has to be balanced with pain. There is a really good video from After Skool about this that I recommend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ha1ZbJIW1f8
