@BitterPill @Tfmonkey @WashedOutGundamPilot I hate to take the side of women on this but guys are designed to be self sacrificial. So to say nothing of the fact that guys up till like their 50's or 60's can radically improve themselves if they put in the effort, going out in a blaze of glory is very satisfying for men.
Women, not so much.
Once they are old, they are old.
I can't remember the exact story, but this guy met a girl from tinder. Looked good, but in person he realized she was a lot older. Saw the wrinkles. She immediately recognized this and knew he wasn't interested. She made some remark about how women were like milk in that they expire -- for women, it is at 30.
Women still deserve a lot of shaming and even hate, but it is worth noting, to be fair, that men have a lot of wiggle room to turn things around whereas for women...once you've screwed things up, you've screwed things up for good.
What can a women do after hitting her wall that isn't unnatural coping? Nothing can return the value she had in her fertile youth.