@nosleep This is easily explainable.

Women want STATUS. A "poorly socialized" man is by definition low status, whereas a guy who beats and abuses women is likely also someone with a dominant personality, which signals high status.

This is why women like assholes and guys who treat them like shit, it tickles their hypergamous instinct to seek men of status. This is why women find nice guys revolting, as it signals low status to simp for her.