@Tfmonkey I did that once already, I know what it feels like. that was my first marriage. This woman is round 2. I have a 14 year old I havent seen since her first birthday. She claims to not have cheated on me only sent pics. I have been with her for 10 years, She was 300 when we got together, I like em chubby. she got into a carr accudent and balloned up to 825lbs, almost died. I stood by her. She dropped to 245 after surgery lots of extra skin even after a surgey that removed 25 lbs of skin. @elftummy I lived the dream, I flew to close to he sun and now my life is fucked. Im drinking myself to sleep.