this notion of attracting women is a modern invention by simps. just like romance or being a gentleman. in other words, competing by other means than power and wealth. men took or bought women, there was no asking, their opinion was non-existent. they were indeed closer to a property than a human being. but the society has been growing weaker and weaker over the centuries, so men had to look for other ways to mate. now, we view those ways as mainstream behavior. dance for me, jester. dance!