It's funny, all my life i have heard " been single and childless is freedom. " But they don't talk about how EVERYONE forcefully involves you in shit you never had anything to do with, BUT YOU HAVE TO RESOLVE IT. forget about doing it at your speed, you are working on OTHER people's speed, they will DEMAND you resolve the shit NOW! as if you had anything to do with the shit.

but the thought of " oh he must be living the dream, single childless, no responsibility. "