@redmaple - And I'm thinking here mostly, of those rare cases of actual abuse (of all sorts). Personally, I was conceived in one abusive household, only to be raised in another - so I know that it can happen on occasion.

So while random white knighting should be highly discouraged, if there's a personal and familial connection - a real personal investment in the outcome, then I can see a place for it.

And I suppose this too, is a matter of values. But those are some considerations. 🍻