@rees @mischievoustomato @dicey @condret

Oh you're DEFINITELY autistic.

the total lack of any emotional appeals in your responses even after I pointed it out to you proves it to me.

But to address your point I just don't like the cynical world view because it leads to people getting demoralized and not enacting the very possible and meaningful changes they can make in their life.

I've known rees and he's not autistic/mean, he's just realistic/honest. Very similar to me mum

@mischievoustomato @rees @condret

>he's not autistic/mean

I'm trying not to believe it but how else do you explain making cogent points and to points later being dismissive and trollish?

@dicey said his dad FUCKING died he didn't want a pity party but saying LOL to that is just being a dick for no reason.

He said my father was responsible for my disease that's why I blocked him

yeah and I'd need to know the full context behidn that convo to throw a judgement to either side

Honestly I feel like battling him in a battle to death

cant relate bc my dad ended up being an asswipe

Well my was innocent and kind. Extremely strong arms. Gentle. No one disliked him. Everyone he meet liked him. He didn't pass judgement on anybody. He could talk to drug addicts and company directors. No social filters. Just very innocent. Very different from me

zamn
i feel jealous when people.mention having good fathers

@mischievoustomato @rees @dicey @condret

>I feel jealous when people.mention having good fathers

I feel that I used to think the same way.

My dad is certified cray but he had a hard life and he's getting old so I've moved on.

He told me he loved me in my Christmas card which is about is good as it gets with him 🤷‍♂️

mine didn't, he was just a lazy bastard thanks to whom i had to work a lot when i was a teenager
god I'll piss on his grave when he dies

Sometimes the parents are total narcissists and sometimes it's the children. Nature is mysterious with how genes work.

i wish i was a narcissist or an asshole and had the spirit to be that

But then you wouldn't know what love is

i only got the warming love of me mum and that's fine
eventually I'll be on my own, and that'll be interesting