@YoMomz

>I would hold the females accountable for their end, but that's a pointless endeavo

TRUE lol

>I generally explain to the man, what the consequences will be if this continues, and that it's not worth it

Well said but IMO not worth the risk as some people these days are too kray to handle.

> There were several prior boyfriends who treated them well, and would've made decent husbands.

You can't make an adequate determination of character if you have none.