@WashedOutGundamPilot Generally the "reason" these women fail to heed the warnings of the red flags is either that they had no strong father for reference for what a man should be, but instead gravitate to traits that make them feel tingly inside, which does not correlate strongly with a man being suitable to be a father. Such women filter on what makes them feel good in the moment rather than being sensible. This is why fathers are asked for the blessing in marriage, prevention of stupidity.