Yeah baby now we’re talking. I’m going in blind but let’s read ourselves a juicy thread, eh?
@WashedOutGundamPilot I really hate this circular logic. "How can I know if you are a catch or not if someone else does not verify that for me?" I know, psychology and social proof will affect your opinions, but they should not be the sole measuring stick for whether or not someone is worth a relationship.
I never would have been able to have the wife I had if she applied that thinking to me. Because yes, I was not exactly killing it in the dating market prior to meeting her.
@houseoftolstoy Need to get acquainted with how the kids think now, it’s kicked those natural “well why would I want him if nobody else does?” instincts into high gear. Interestingly there’s a phenom in the zoomers where they see their online self as their “true” being, that’s more “me” than their physical body and life. They live to be seen living via those avenues, which makes them demand ‘desirable’ guys in order to compete in what they think is a kind of online arms race.
@WashedOutGundamPilot I hope this woman has been told "you need job experience to have this job." Also circular logic here, where the job you are wanting would give you said experience.