@Fender @WashedOutGundamPilot
>They are disturbed that men would think this is what a girlfriend amounts to.
For many women, this is all they really can offer. So many of them have abandoned being feminine and have no practical skills that would make for a competent wife and mother. Men see this and respond by giving up the idea of a marriage and family. Yes, many men will choose the hedonism route as well as a response, but that is one form of adaptation to the changes in society.