@ChristiJunior @WashedOutGundamPilot That huge risk is indeed far too great for the "reward" that is the fleeting feelings of casual sex. The problem I see here is that she clearly wants sex, but does not want to take any responsibility for it. She wants all of that on the man, and whether or not she would retroactively withdraw consent for any reason, the man does not want to be in that situation. Women do not seem to understand or care how great the risk is for men when they pull this shit.
@ChristiJunior @WashedOutGundamPilot If she were to take responsibility for what she wants (sex), she might feel like a slut. But the truth she does not want to confront is that she already is a slut. She is simply a slut in denial. But if the man reads her signals that she actually wants sex, in her mind, she was not really responsible for the situation because he was the one driving things. Never mind that she is making decisions to have sex as well even if she is being passive.
@houseoftolstoy @ChristiJunior It’s very common. It’s having it both ways, it’d be like your boss forcibly giving you a month off and sending you on that trip you wanted to take. You couldn’t enjoy it to the fullest if you decided to go, pay for it yourself, because you’d know the costs. But if you’re pushed into it them boom, you can have it either way you want. You aren’t to blame for enjoying yourself, it’s not YOUR money you’re spending!