@WashedOutGundamPilot First, the idea that a man "needs help" for wanting a woman in her prime is insane as it is an attempt to subvert nature itself (never a smart idea, as instincts are there for a reason).
Second, being able to "banter" or just spout familiar references are so unimportant to a relationship that it is ridiculous to even elevate it's importance. It is more of a red herring than anything.
@WashedOutGundamPilot And I can speak from experience myself that the references I know with anime and video games are not how I would connect with my wife, because she does not have interest in those things. Big deal. We can talk about other things.